Do you know that the way you think plays a vital role in the life you create. I know, you have heard this before. (well I hope you have ) There is nothing that could be further from the truth!
We are our own people and the things that we focus on daily, as in our thinking, the way we feel, and how we interpret situations, all have a major impact on the future we are creating for ourselves.
A lot of our thought patterns are conscious. If we pay attention to what we are saying to ourselves on a regular basis… We can become aware of the nature of our thoughts and then switch our thinking to being more positive.
The other type of thinking that we posses is unconscious. Basically you’re unconscious thought patterns are stored away in the brain and are somewhat stealth in their appearance. This unconscious thinking is also having an impact on our lives but on a very subtle level. Its harder to pinpoint what they are and to change them. I would say they usually show up as strong emotions and cause us to feel certain things.
A good example of this might be a guy getting ready to approach a girl, or even getting ready to phone her. All of a sudden the heart starts beating faster, the throat begins to close up and the hands begin shaking. When you get into a situation like this you can tell yourself consciously “it’s OK, nothing will happen, I have done this before” but it doesn’t seem to help. If you can relate to this and you get what I’m talking about. Amen! You understand how frustrating this can be.
This situation, occurs because you are changing you’re conscious thought patterns with the positive self talk, but it’s the unconscious emotion of FEAR that is directing you. How many men find themselves in this exact situation and ultimately pull out due to the intensity of the fear caused by the unconscious?
So what is the solution. well… YOU HAVE TO REPROGRAM AND REDIRECT THE UNCONSCIOUS MIND.
I personally have spent years working on myself, as to take more control over myself and my life. Even today I constantly look to improve. I have learned that you’re unconscious mind will ultimately play the biggest part in who you are and what you become.
I am going to recommend another book, that not only explains a lot, but also gives you actual exercises to do in order to start to re program you’re unconscious. ( I should get endorsement’s from all the books I recommend, yes I know)
Anyway this is a fantastic book and a must read! Use the material daily and it will have a profound impact on you’re life as its based on the SELF IMAGE. This book will explain to you about you’re SELF IMAGE and the impact it has on everything that you do.
‘Phsyco- Cybernetics’ By Maxwell Maltz
At the end of the day, these are all wonderful tools to assist you into having an outstanding life. The kind of life that you dream of. How much you are willing to do to succeed in life and to live you’re dreams? It’s ultimatly up to you. If you want it, you can have it, anything! You just have to take action…
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