So how do you do this? Well you have to phone.
Most guys want to know how long to wait and what they should say.
I will answer the, what to say first.
If your purpose for calling is to end up on a date together and take the interaction further (with this lucky girl) you should get right to the point.
If you end up on the phone for 20minutes talking about general stuff than you may have nothing left to reveal about yourself. Im not saying don’t have a conversation on the phone…Just keep it minimal. If you have a lot of positive stuff going on in your life and possible commonalities between the two of you. My advice is to save all this good stuff for when you are actually face to face with each other. It makes the connection so much stronger and fun as you slowly learn more about each other.
Ring up, make a few references to the when you firs t met and then set up another meeting.
How long should you wait then before you call?
This is a hard one. If you call to soon you may appear too desperate, easy and keen. If you wait to long you may risk coming across as a game player and time may also kill the initial spice between the two of you. Best thing to do if you get a mobile is to text that same day saying it was great to meet her today and then wait about 2 days. Then phone and ask “did you get my text?” Tell her that you meant it (hopefully you did as I want you guys to be genuine) and say “you think she should come and meet you again as you felt she had a good energy or something similar. (Again, only if you mean it) I want you guys to learn to be natural and genuine and what you see is what you get. No manipulation, no game playing. This is very important to the overall picture if you ultimately want long lasting success.
Make sure you also take the lead as in have a date scenario planned and know when and where you want to meet. There is nothing worse than a guy that does not plan and can’t make decisions.
Remember guys, women are attracted to self confident, self reliant men. You must always demonstrate this and make it a natural part of your personality.
Another side note to always remember. This is a numbers game (excuse the pun) but it takes a bit a of trial and error before you master this, but… These are the vital points that I suggest you take note of now!
I go into even greater detail and explain not only what to do but why it actually works. When you have this deeper understanding of the principals of picking up and the reason why we actually do specific things. You then develop the freedom to do whatever you want because you understand the why behind it all and it guides you in what to do.
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