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“Day Game Dating Blog“, please feel free to check it out and catch up on the latest and greatest of information.

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We hope you enjoy both our previous and new sites and content.

Enjoy

Regards

Colin (Founder)

Day Game Dating

I am proud to introduce to you, our official book… ‘Day Game To Girlfriend’ By Colin 

Well, it has been a long time coming. But its official, its here and available now.

This is a true road-map onto becoming a natural. In this book, you will not find canned pickup lines and routines. What you will get are proven strategies for attaining natural success with women.

This is a true break down on what it takes to get your act together and how to insure long-term success. I guarantee you that this stuff works… Its has worked for me and most importantly, its has worked for my clients.

I know 100% that if you follow the content in the book… You will dramatically improve your success with women.

If you have met me and attended one of my events… You would be well aware of my natural approach to the subject on dating. This book represents everything that my coaches and I teach and we are very proud to have the opportunity to share it with you.

3 Major Bonuses offered, when you purchases the book.

Now, I wont go into to much detail, but there are some MAJOR bonuses that come alongside this book that will truly blow you away! Put it this way, I am offering something that will actually save you money and add massive value.

check it out Day Game To Girlfriend eBook

Honestly, this is a win win situation for you. I think you will be pleasantly surprised!!!

Cheers

Colin

Want to know more about what we do? 

visit the official website: www.daygamedating.com.au

Well, we had a big weekend.

On Sunday we held the first ‘Day Game Dating’ Dinner for the year. As I mentioned in an earlier post. This was a great opportunity for us to get together as a group and discuss our experiences.

We all had some great things to bring to the table and even though I am the Head Coach of ‘Day Game Dating’.This does not mean that I know everything and that I wont continue to learn and grow myself.

We had a great mix of people and everybody got to add in their two cents. This is a great way to see things from each individual perspective and than discuss it as a group. Its amazing how many profound things come out and what you can actually learn. When I got home I went straight for the computer and made sure that I wrote down as much as I could remember. Fantastic!

Going through my emails yesterday I came across something that I certainly did not expect. I’m not going to mention any names as this is very early days. Lets just say that a certain well known TV personality from the USA is looking at doing a documentary on pick up artists and dating coaches around the world. Apparently one of my past clients is affiliated with this person and has recommended that ‘Day Game Dating’ is a company worth having a look at.

Well, as you can imagine I was somewhat surprised by this. Obviously this was the first I have heard of this except to say that I kind of know now who the client might have being. (Especially with the fact that they when I coached him, he mentioned to me that he was traveling here from America and he had an accent). Yep, now it makes sense.

Anyway this is a good thing and weather something comes out of this or not…. It does not matter. It clearly indicates to me that our clients are impressed with our service. I will certainly keep you all updated with this one.

I think I will keep it short today. As usual, keep out there and working on those skills.

Cheers.

Colin

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So how do you do this? Well you have to phone.

Most guys want to know how long to wait and what they should say.

I will answer the, what to say first.

If your purpose for calling is to end up on a date together and take the interaction further (with this lucky girl) you should get right to the point.

If you end up on the phone for 20minutes talking about general stuff than you may have nothing left to reveal about yourself. Im not saying don’t have a conversation on the phone…Just keep it minimal. If you have a lot of positive stuff going on in your life and possible commonalities between the two of you. My advice is to save all this good stuff for when you are actually face to face with each other. It makes the connection so much stronger and fun as you slowly learn more about each other.

Ring up, make a few references to the when you firs t met and then set up another meeting.

How long should you wait then before you call?

This is a hard one. If you call to soon you may appear too desperate, easy and keen. If you wait to long you may risk coming across as a game player and time may also kill the initial spice between the two of you. Best thing to do if you get a mobile is to text that same day saying it was great to meet her today and then wait about 2 days. Then phone and ask “did you get my text?” Tell her that you meant it (hopefully you did as I want you guys to be genuine) and say “you think she should come and meet you again as you felt she had a good energy or something similar. (Again, only if you mean it) I want you guys to learn to be natural and genuine and what you see is what you get. No manipulation, no game playing. This is very important to the overall picture if you ultimately want long lasting success.

Make sure you also take the lead as in have a date scenario planned and know when and where you want to meet. There is nothing worse than a guy that does not plan and can’t make decisions.

Remember guys, women are attracted to self confident, self reliant men. You must always demonstrate this and make it a natural part of your personality.

Another side note to always remember. This is a numbers game (excuse the pun) but it takes a bit a of trial and error before you master this, but… These are the vital points that I suggest you take note of now!

I go into even greater detail and explain not only what to do but why it actually works. When you have this deeper understanding of the principals of picking up and the reason why we actually do specific things. You then develop the freedom to do whatever you want because you understand the why behind it all and it guides you in what to do.

I hold regular day game boot camps and private coaching sessions and would love you to join me. 

visit the official website: www.daygamedating.com.au

Well this is it…

I thought I would write up a bit about last Saturday, October 25th that is. THE PASSION FOR LIFE EXPO.

What a great day its was, a huge success, over 400 people attended and all came together for the common purpose of improving their love lives…

What can I say? This was a fantastic event and everybody who attended got something out of it.

Some of Australia’s leading coaches on dating and self improvement all spoke at the event and got to put forward their views on how to be successful with the opposite sex…

I personally learnt a huge amount on the day and have really taken a lot on board. I got to listen to the other coaches give their talks and in-turn reflect on the training that my company gives and how we do things.

We all have different styles but… We all agree on two vital points.

1, YOU MUST GET YOUR LIFE SELF SORTED INTERNALLY BEFORE YOU CAN HAVE LONG LASTING SUCCESS.

2, THIS IS A PROCESS LIKE ANYTHING ELSE IN LIFE AND NEEDS ONGOING ATTENTION AND PERSISTENCE.

We are on Face book so feel free to check out some photos of the day.

http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=80300&id=42205350707

We will be holding more events in the near future and I am already working on some new cutting edge training for improved coaching and success with women out in the field.

Life is an ongoing journey of learning and self actualisation. Aim to be the best that you can be and never settle for less than you feel you deserve!!!

We hold regular day game boot camps and private coaching sessions and would love you to join us. 

I might be rambling on with this post but to me its so interesting.

Lately I have been doing a lot of thinking on this whole ‘Day Game Dating’ pick up thing…

I run a company that teaches men how to pick up women during the daytime.

If I think back a few years ago and thought to myself, “what will I be doing with my life”… I don’t believe I would have picked this as a way of making a living, yet we are doing really well and loving it!!! Life is truly great when you are able to wake up in the morning and go to work doing what you enjoy.  

The job satisfaction of taking your everyday male who is frustrated with the whole meeting women concept and being able to successfully teach him the skills to go out and handle this part of his life… IS INCREDIBLE!

Now this can be a controversial subject at times (especially with women) and when people find out what we are doing, they either become extremely fascinated or at times judgmental. Ultimately this occures because they don’t understand exactly what it is we do.  After I explain some of our philosophy’s and theory’s, they always come round. A lack of understanding and communication is the cause for many frustrating situations between people in life and as a trainer, I have learned to be patient with people. When you come from a good place and genuinely want to help people… It always works itself out.  

Many men have issues relating to the opposite sex and as long as I’m running ‘Day Game Dating’ I will insure that my coaches and I, do our absolute best to assist them.

This is never about manipulating women or using techniques and canned lines to generate a response, to seduce them if you like. No Way! We preach on how to genuinely become a more attractive male where success with women becomes a normal part of who you are. You learn to feel wonderful about yourself as a person and people want to be a part of that.

When men struggle to meet and connect with the opposite sex, you can be sure that there is more going on then just the initial frustration of lack of skill in this area.

Sure, developing the ability to be successfull with women does involve some skill and practice, but most importantly… Its attending to all the deeper internal issues and mindsets where true success begins.

My whole realisation and philosophy is based around this truth… We must clear up our old wounds and baggage and sort out our current mindsets and beliefs.

Its time to also grow up, fix up every aspect of your life and learn deal with people in a better way. Develop some initiative, courage and skill sets, to enable you to successfully go out and meet women.

We hold regular day game boot camps and private coaching sessions and would love you to join us. 

I want to write about baggage. I am not referring to the type of baggage that you have when you go to the airport, no not today, maybe next time.

Baggage as in relevant to the subject of self improvement is what I would like to hit on.

Many of us are trying out best to get through this world and to have a great life and make things happen.

Ultimately I believe as healthy human beings, we want happiness and contentment. Sure we have goals and life purposes to fill. We want family and friends in our lives and to enjoy the good things that come with living. Have nice, houses, cars, go out to nice restaurants etc.

A lot of us want these things and we can all have them.

What we don’t want in our lives is to live daily with the burdens and pain of old baggage.

You know what I am talking about, the feelings of fear, anxiety, sadness, anger and helplessness that seem to come from nowhere. These NEGATIVE emotions pop up at random times in your life and hold you back and prevent you from feeling truly HAPPY AND CONTENT.

Most of us have suffered from baggage that stems from old wounds in our pasts. We had incidents and events occur that we managed to place a negative meaning onto. We then let these seep deeply into our unconscious mind and forget that it exists.

The problem is that its still there circulating within us and becomes a part of our general makeup. We don’t consciously think about old wounds a lot of the time, but that doesn’t mean that we have dealt with them. These wounds stay within us and accumulate into BAGGAGE.

This baggage causes us to be vulnerable in certain circumstances in our lives. Events that occur can cause a stream of emotions to come flooding through us. These may be emotions of intense fear, anger, sadness and a general feeling of discontentment.

I believe that if we well and truly want to become the best that we can in life, to achieve our goals and dreams while at the same time always enjoying the process and feeling grateful living in the now.

We must remove and deal with our old wounds and thus remove the baggage!

There are many avenues you can take and you only have to look around at the options out there.

‘At Day Game Dating’ part of what we do is recommend to clients the best ways they can go about improving themselves and their lives. The team here know very well about clearing up old wounds to enable able ongoing happiness, growth and success.

We are not qualified therapists be any means, but if that’s what a client needs then that’s what we will recommend as a course of action to take.

We are not gurus in self help, but if its a range of books and tapes and courses that a client needs to go through. again we will recommend this to them.

We are here to assist men into truly finding themselves and thus naturally become attractive and successful with the opposite sex. This is what we do and we are proud of it.

Life is an ongoing journey of learning and self actualisation. Aim to be the best that you can be and never settle for less than you feel you deserve!!!

We hold regular day game boot camps and private coaching sessions and would love you to join us. 

I thought I would write a little bit about something called a ‘learning curve’.

It’s always fascinated me how we as human beings learn new skills and develop our abilities to do things. There is always a process to everything and a cycle of ups and downs on the way to mastery. The reason that I find this subject so interesting is mainly due to the fact that I myself love learning.

I always think that understanding about learning curves is very relevant to anybody attempting to master new skills and learning how to meet women is no different.

Most men start off wanting some pick up lines and few slick moves. They think that this will be enough to see them through to success. It’s only when they get serious about wanting to get this part of their lives handled, they realize how much of an intense and full subject this really is. It quickly becomes apparent that its not so much about the ‘techniques’, it’s more about sorting out their own personal stuff and baggage. This is when the hard work needs to be put in and things can go very slowly, especially in the beginning. When you are trying out new things, reading new books and talking to other like minded individuals. Most of the time it will feel like it’s just not happening.

This is something that I understand very well, This is what I teach. This my friends, is always the road to mastery. Most of the time when you want to learn a new skill, there are long periods of frustration where you feel like you just aren’t improving. Hell, sometimes you even feel like you are going backwards and regressing.

The biggest gains are usually made early on when it comes to pick up. I have literally seen guys who can not even look at a woman directly, let alone speak to her.  Reading books and articles does tend to help at first as this new found knowledge on the subject can spike confidence. This can only ever be a good thing as long as its getting you out of your shell.

When guys attend my bootcamps, or take private coaching, their confidence and skills always sky rocket due to the intense nature of the way we run things.

We know from experience that this does work and is the quickest possible way to get you going and out there now! When you get to this point, its now just a matter of following through, putting in constant effort and slowly mastering the subject for permanent internalisation and on going success.

This is a very crucial point to be at and its really do or die. You have to keep working on the skill. This is where understanding about learning curves will hopefully give you some further understanding of the process that you are going through. If anything, understanding learning curves will insure your ongoing determination and persistence and not allow you to give up and go back to your old ways.

Its very sad in human nature, but the majority of people in our society want something for nothing. They want things, skills, money etc, but they are not willing to work for it and put in the hard yards.

There is a law of nature regarding persistence. NO MATTER WHAT YOU WANT TO ATTAIN IN LIFE, YOU WILL SUCCEED AS LONG AS YOU PERSIST. EVEN IF YOU DON’T KNOW WHERE TO START OR HOW TO GET TO THE NEXT LEVEL. IF YOU JUST DO WHAT YOU CAN RIGHT NOW AND KEEP SEARCHING AND WORKING TO MOVE FORWARD. YOU WILL UlTIMATLY FIND A WAY!!!

In my life I have always wanted things and to have it all. I also know that when I make up my mind to get something, I always find ways to attain it and win!

Do I get it right away? No!

Does it seem like I am not making progress most on the time? Yes! 

Do I keep going forward regardless of challenges and set backs? Yes!

Will I eventually succeed? Always!!

Just take it as a given, when you are attempting to learn something new, master a skill or attain any type of success, it will seem like the whole world is against you at first. It can almost feel like, nobody wants you to succeed. The more effort you seem to put in, the more setbacks seem to occur.

THIS IS THE TIME WHERE YOUR PERSISTENT NATURE AND DETERMINATION IS TESTED. DO YOU REALLY WANT IT BADLY ENOUGH AND ARE YOU WILLING TO WORK THROUGH AND FIND A WAY?

The road to success can be slow and painful at times, but… The rewards you receive when you finally arrive, will be well worth it!!!

Do you know that the way you think plays a vital role in the life you create. I know, you have heard this before. (well I hope you have ) There is nothing that could be further from the truth!

We are our own people and the things that we focus on daily, as in our thinking, the way we feel, and how we interpret situations, all have a major impact on the future we are creating for ourselves.

A lot of our thought patterns are conscious. If we pay attention to what we are saying to ourselves on a regular basis… We can become aware of the nature of our thoughts and then switch our thinking to being more positive.

The other type of thinking that we posses is unconscious. Basically you’re unconscious thought patterns are stored away in the brain and are somewhat stealth in their appearance. This unconscious thinking is also having an impact on our lives but on a very subtle level. Its harder to pinpoint what they are and to change them. I would say they usually show up as strong emotions and cause us to feel certain things.

A good example of this might be a guy getting ready to approach a girl, or even getting ready to phone her. All of a sudden the heart starts beating faster, the throat begins to close up and the hands begin shaking. When you get into a situation like this you can tell yourself consciously “it’s OK, nothing will happen, I have done this before” but it doesn’t seem to help. If you can relate to this and you get what I’m talking about. Amen! You understand how frustrating this can be.

This situation, occurs because you are changing you’re conscious thought patterns with the positive self talk, but it’s the unconscious emotion of FEAR that is directing you. How many men find themselves in this exact situation and ultimately pull out due to the intensity of the fear caused by the unconscious?

So what is the solution. well… YOU HAVE TO REPROGRAM AND REDIRECT THE UNCONSCIOUS MIND.

I personally have spent years working on myself, as to take more control over myself and my life. Even today I constantly look to improve. I have learned that you’re unconscious mind will ultimately play the biggest part in who you are and what you become.

I am going to recommend another book, that not only explains a lot, but also gives you actual exercises to do in order to start to re program you’re unconscious. ( I should get endorsement’s from all the books I recommend, yes I know)

Anyway this is a fantastic book and a must read! Use the material daily and it will have a profound impact on you’re life as its based on the SELF IMAGE. This book will explain to you about you’re SELF IMAGE and the impact it has on everything that you do.

‘Phsyco- Cybernetics’ By Maxwell Maltz

At the end of the day, these are all wonderful tools to assist you into having an outstanding life. The kind of life that you dream of. How much you are willing to do to succeed in life and to live you’re dreams? It’s ultimatly up to you. If you want it, you can have it, anything! You just have to take action…

I hold regular day game boot camps and private coaching sessions and would love you to join me.